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UPtoPARENTS

UPtoPARENTS offers resources for separated or divorced parents to build better futures by focusing on meeting their children’s needs and child-centric solutions to family conflicts.

Colorado Division of Child Support Services works with parents and caretakers to ensure kids get financial support

Sesame Workshop provides early education and support for children facing tough situations, including divorce, in a way they can understand

Family Resource Network offers a wide range of support, such as parenting classes, Child and Family Investigators, Parent Coordinators and therapy.

Emergency Resources

TESSA is an information provider and resource referral service that empowers victims of partner and sexual violence and provides a confidential safehouse, victim advocacy, counseling and children’s programs, a 24/7 safe line, and community outreach and education programs.

Court Appointed Special Advocates (or CASA) is a volunteer-based nonprofit organization that advocates for children’s best interests in El Paso and Teller Counties. Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) represent the best interests of victims of child abuse, neglect, and severe domestic conflict.

Low Income Legal Help

Colorado Resource Network aims to assist older Coloradans and their caregivers by connecting them with service providers and obtaining assistance in areas that are important to them.

Colorado Legal Help Center provides legal information and resources to guide Coloradans towards resources to find a lawyer, learn the process for legal issues, and legal materials such as specific laws and forms.

Colorado Legal Services is a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free civil legal assistance to low-income individuals and seniors throughout Colorado with a variety of legal issues.

frequently asked questions

What is a spouse entitled to in a divorce?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T19:09:14+00:00

Generally, a party to a divorce is entitled to an equitable division of the marital estate and may be awarded spousal maintenance (also known as spousal support or alimony).

Is Colorado 50-50 state?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T19:09:34+00:00

The court will consider all relevant factors when dividing the estate, and ultimately will allocate property and debt equitably, but, depending on the circumstances, that does not necessarily mean “equally” or 50/50 in every case. Similarly, courts may award spousal maintenance in an amount and for a term that is fair and equitable to both parties. Courts consider several factors, for example the parties’ incomes and financial resources, and may award maintenance based on the requesting party’s reasonable need and the other party’s ability to pay.

How many years do you have to be married to receive spousal support (aka maintenance or alimony)?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T19:00:25+00:00

Generally, Colorado’s statutory advisory guidelines do not recommend spousal maintenance until 3 years of marriage, but maintenance may be awarded in shorter-term marriages under certain circumstances. This does not mean that a person will automatically be granted maintenance if they are married for 3 or more years.

Can a spouse refuse divorce?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T19:00:15+00:00

Generally, no. Assuming the court has jurisdiction and other requirements have been met, it will enter a decree of dissolution (grant a divorce) if it finds the marriage is irretrievably broken. If one party denies under oath that the marriage is irretrievably broken, the court will consider all relevant factors (including the circumstances that gave rise to the petition for dissolution and prospect of reconciliation) and may conduct additional proceedings and suggest counseling, before determining whether it irretrievably broken.

How do I protect myself financially in a divorce?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T18:54:29+00:00

Protecting yourself before a divorce starts long before the divorce. Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are a good way to protect yourself because spouses can agree to specific assets they would like to protect in marriage and divorce.

The court also actively looks to protect the parties to a divorce by enacting an Automatic Temporary Injunction, as soon as the divorce is filed, which does not allow one spouse to remove another person from insurance, take the kids out of state, or dispose/hide marital property.

What are the 3 main issues when addressing parenting responsibilities?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T18:59:47+00:00
  1. Decision-making authority;
    • which encompasses big decisions such as health and education
  2. Parenting time; and
  3. Child support
How is parenting time normally handled in Colorado?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T18:59:55+00:00

The courts really encourage joint parenting, given that is in the best interest of the child, and that there are no endangerment concerns. The Colorado Revised Statutes directly state “While co-parenting is not appropriate in all circumstances following dissolution of marriage or legal separation, the general assembly finds and declares that, in most circumstances, it is in the best interest of all parties to encourage frequent and continuing contact between each parent and the minor children of the marriage after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage. In order to effectuate this goal when appropriate, the general assembly urges parents to share the rights and responsibilities of child-rearing and to encourage the love, affection, and contact between the children and the parents.”

Is Colorado a community property state?Taylor Rouillard2025-04-03T19:00:04+00:00

No, Colorado is a marital property state, which means that any asset or debt acquired during the marriage is marital property and most things that are acquired prior to the marriage are separate property. A good example of this would be inheritance, which is considered separate property, even if it is acquired in marriage.

 

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